5 Things That Piss Girls Off at a Bar - (And How to Make Sure You Don’t Do Them!)

Sex & Dating Advice - What you did wrong that night:

Wonder why the girl walked away from you? Couldn’t seal the deal and take her home? Maybe you’re committing some of the small simple gestures that just piss girls off.

Definite NO NO’s in a bar:

1. Look at each other the whole night but never approach
A girl across the bar catches your eye and the two of you make eye contact. She’s cute, and just what your looking for tonight. Every time you walk by she seems to be looking at you as well, but you just can’t seem to find the nerve to approach her. Happened to you before? Well, sounds like you definitely lost a good opportunity. The fact that you two are making eye contact is a pretty good indication that A.) she’s checking you out and B.) she’s just waiting for you to make the first move. Most girls are traditional and like the idea of guys making the first move. Leaving without even making an attempt to talk to her gives her nothing to remember you by, and may even make her little irritated. So if you really want the girl, stop looking and start approaching.
2. Talk to her all night all but never buy her a drink
Girls basically expect guys to buy them drinks at bars. Sorry but this is the truth. They want to be wined and dined and taken care off. So if you’ve met a girl that you’re interested in, a good way to keep her with/talking to you and allow her to loosen up more is to buy her a drink. Talking to her all night and not even making an attempt to buy her a drink makes you look inattentive. And let’s be honest, a little more alcohol can always help ease the situation a bit further.
3. Try and dance with her when she’s on the dance floor
A girl may look damn sexy on the dance floor, but in no way is that an invitation for you to come tango with her. As soon as you try this move guaranteed she’s going to place you under the category of sketchy. So be a gentleman and ask the lady to dance. Then show her how you can really work it out there.
4. Be clingy
Just because you met the girl first doesn’t mean she’s your property. A girl needs her space. Plus, she most likely went to the bar with some friends and wants to hang out with those people too. So after you’ve made a “connection,” let her mingle; then draw her in later. This allows her to observe you for awhile and let her realize that you could actually “be a good guy.” Make sure your initial conversation is enough to “whet her appetite” and have her wanting to come back for more.
5. Hit on her friends while hitting on her
Girls like to travel in packs. But in no way does this mean that they are like a buffet where you can taste a little of each one. Working more than one girl in a group of friends will make you look like a skeez ball and a little too hungry for action. Be charming to the friends (because many times they will share in the vote on whether she’ll go home with you later on that night), but keep your attention on the girl you want.

The Reward:
These mistakes may all seem too simple, but believe me; guys do them all the time. Don’t let these mistakes get in the way of what could potentially be a good hook up. Do us girls a favor and stop pissing us off, and maybe we’ll actually reward you for it later on.

A Really Bad Hangover

We’ve all woken up and realized we made some bad decisions the night before. But never this bad.

First Hookup: Drunk or Sober?

You’ve all experienced it. The dreaded morning-after. You wake up to find yourself in complete disarray, with the whole room reeking of potent perfume, cigarette smoke and sweat. Evidence of last night’s activities are strewn across the floor— a hot pink Victoria’s Secret thong, a pair of boxers and those painful four-inch stilettos she insisted on wearing to the bar last night.

And for the girls, it’s having to wake up next to him. He’s the boy you’ve been crushing on for weeks. The one who distracts you so much during biology class that you have no idea how many carpels a tomato has but know the precise number of freckles that dot his tanned cheeks. The cutie you planned to bring as your date to your next sorority function.

But now? You know it’s over before it even began. Ashamedly, you slither out of bed, clothe yourself and tell him you have to run to class. He murmurs goodbye and rolls over to go back to bed.
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